[Communication skills up!?] The favorability rate increases by 300% in the direction of the navel!! 】
Even if you are asked a question by a junior, you are still tapping on the computer keyboard and answering the question without looking at the other person's face.
Yes, it's you.
I'll show you your declining favorability in just one minute.
Hello, this is Nyukio, a professional interviewer.
I am aprofessional interviewer in Kitano-cho, Kobe.
My favorite Bourbon sweet is Le Mande.
Including those who have not been recorded, we have interviewed more than 1,267 people.
This time, we will introduce the "navel" that everyone is concerned about.
The navel is that navel.
What kind of
"posture" do you have when you listen to the story?
Take a look at the following image.
This is your usual you.
Oh, it feels kind of out of place.
Iwant you to at least turn your face towards me.
worst example
This is not acceptable, we are talking only on signs without looking at our faces.
Itmay no longer be called a conversation, it is a one-way [accelerator] of words.
NG posture
Here are some postures you shouldn't take when listening to a story.
Down: I look bored and uninterested.
Fidgeting: Fidgiding is perceived as not concentrating or listening if you move finely.
Cross your arms: It creates a sense of rejection or caution.
Listen while looking at your phone: It may seem like you're prioritizing your phone over the other person.
Interrupt the conversation: It's important to listen to the other person to the end.
↓↓↓ Here is the best example! ↓↓↓
It's so nice!
I really feel that they arelistening to me!
It is
often said that the eyes speak as much as the mouth.
BEST Posture
Here are someattitudes I would like you to take when listening to the story.
Look in the eye and listen: The gaze is a sign that you are interested in the other person.
Lean forward: Leaning forward a little can help you show that you are focused on the other person.
Nod: Nod moderately to show that you understand what you're saying. *Be careful not to nod too much, as it will have the opposite effect.
Take notes: By taking notes on key points, you can show that you are listening.
Smile: A smile reassures the other person and creates an atmosphere that makes it easier to talk.
Conclusion
The attitude of listening to the story makes an impression on the other person more than words. By being aware of listening with a good attitude, you can increase your favorability, build trust, and keep your work and communication in good condition.
Other points to increase favorability are:
"Show empathy", "ask questions", and "use positive words"
If you are aware of this point and listen to the story< you can say that the surrounding environment will change span style="text-decoration: underline;">.
To change your surroundings, first change your attitude and consciousness.
No one can change suddenly, but let's do our best little by little!
If you are a swordsman who can talk with this interview program is recommended.
